Robert Norton Whitaker, Sr.

June 11, 1940 - August 28, 2021

06/11/1940 - 08/28/2021

Past Services

Friday September 03, 2021
11:00 am
Whitaker's Chapel
5356 Thirteen Bridges Road
Enfield, NC 27823

Robert Norton Whitaker, Sr., 81, of Enfield, NC passed away on Saturday, August 28, 2021 at Vidant Medical Center in Greenville, NC, succumbing to injuries sustained in a fall.

Rob, lovingly named “Pops” by his grandsons, was born on June 11, 1940 in Nash County to Myrtle Norton and Robert Absalom Whitaker. He grew up and spent his life in Enfield, NC. Rob learned to fish and hunt at an early age, activities he enjoyed throughout his lifetime. He was among the first group of campers to attend Camp Sea Gull, where he further honed his fishing skills and learned all things sailing and boating.

Rob graduated from Riverside Military Academy and then NC State University where he was a member of Alpha Gamma Rho. While at NCSU, Rob went on a blind date with a pretty ECU coed named Jane Oglesby from Morehead City. She would become the love of his life. They were married in June 1962, a month after graduating college. We’re pretty sure Rob would have married Jane even if his future mother-in-law, Dollie, did not cook the best soft-shelled crabs and homemade clam chowder!

The newlyweds made their home on Whitfield St. and soon had a son, Robert, and daughter, Martha. With his agriculture degree from NCSU and guidance from his Uncle Waldo Whitaker, Rob began his career in farming and soon progressed to cotton and commercial storage. He owned and operated Enfield Bonded Warehouse for 50 years. He later started NC Fibers, a cotton re-ginning business.

Together, Rob and Jane restored the Whitaker family home, Strawberry Hill. Through their tireless efforts, in 1980 it was placed on the National Register of Historic Places, an accomplishment of which they were both proud.

Rob enjoyed his garden, abundant with both vegetables and flowers. If you knew Rob, you’ve likely been the recipient of his tomatoes and okra and maybe even some zinnias. You’ve also likely attended his annual “Poppy Party” held every spring when the poppies bloomed. He said it was to show off his flowers, but it was also because Rob loved people. The more, the merrier. Everyone was welcome.

Rob loved dove hunting, duck hunting and a good fishing hole, especially Moss’s Pond and Bellamy’s Lake. He also loved a good bourbon, a pair of dice, any casino, the stock market, fried okra, boiled peanuts, cheddar cheese on a saltine cracker and all seafood, especially from the water at his beloved Topsail Beach, where he was often found watching the herons and egrets or another beautiful sunset over Topsail Sound. Thankfully, he was able to enjoy more of those than one could count.

Rob was generous and unfailingly loyal. He made friends everywhere he went and he kept them for life. More than anything else, Rob loved his family and was especially proud of his two children and his six grandsons. He will be greatly missed by his family and his many friends.

Rob was preceded in death by his wife of 36 years, Jane O. Whitaker and his brother, Cary Whitaker. He is survived by his son, Dr. Robert N. Whitaker, Jr. and his wife, Susan, of Salisbury and their sons, Benton, Braxton, Mason and Alexander; and his daughter, Martha W. Jones and her husband, David, of Enfield and their sons, Tyson and Connor.

A graveside service for Rob will be held on Friday, September 3, 2021 at 11:00 am at Whitaker’s Chapel, 5356 Thirteen Bridges Road, Enfield, NC followed immediately by a reception, outside at Strawberry Hill, 3281 Loop Road, Enfield, NC.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Whitaker’s Chapel, PO Box 344, Enfield, NC 27823 or online by clicking here or to a charity of one’s choice.

Letchworth-Sykes Funeral Service in Scotland Neck is handling the arrangements for the Whitaker family and online condolences can be directed to the family by visiting

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Merlin Kyle (Michigan resident but regular Enfield visitor).
2 years ago

My deepest condolences go to the Whitaker family. I crossed paths with Mr. Whitaker a few times during my visits to Enfield as my mom grew up there. He left a lasting impression after every conversation and I was impressed with his accomplishments in life. Rest assured knowing that he is in a much better place and know that he truly loved his family. God Bless you all.

Susan Grady Wyche
2 years ago

Robert and Martha, I am so sorry about your Dad’s death. I remember him from long ago and loved reading about your family’s house, his life and work, and love of his friends, family, and of course Topsail. I’m sorry for your loss. Take care!

Anna Whitaker Williams
2 years ago

To the family of Robert N Whitaker, we are sadden to hear of your loss. Rob will always be remembered for the kindness he showed to many. The family of Pauline Whitaker.

Jill Whitaker - New York, New York
2 years ago

On this day of Rob’s Remembrance Day, my thoughts are with his family and friends. In remembering my last visit to Strawberry Hill after the June 2019 Whitaker Reunion, I have fond memories of Rob taking me through the house and showing me his garden, taking family group pictures and having a one-on-one conversation on our families with a glass of wine sitting overlooking his proud garden. The last ime I was in the house was 34 years ago before the renovations Rob and Jane made. I was taken to the house after that reunion by my Aunt Eunice Whitaker and her brother, Uncle Charles Whitaker, Sr. of Bells, TN. Rob took us on tour and I remember the music room with the antique piano. All good Whitaker memories thanks to Rob’s gracioousness.

Bo, Cathy, Will, Staton, and Clark Dupree
2 years ago

Martha, David, Tyson and Connor, Thinking about you and your family during this difficult time.

Deborah Powell
2 years ago

Rob was a special lunchtime friend and we have had many an enjoyable time talking, laughing and sharing. I will miss his kindness and good humor.

Brenda Whitaker Collins
2 years ago

Rob was so kind to show us around Strawberry Hill on our visit to Enfield and Whitaker’s Chapel. I was proud to have known him. Rest in eternal peace Mr Rob.

Thomas Rose
2 years ago

Condolences from the Rose family and the Wells family of Enfield.

Suzann & Wayne Anderson
2 years ago

Love to the Whitaker family, Rob was a great and dear friend to us and made us laugh. He will be missed by all of us dearly. I am sure he is in heaven with his wife Jane, our friend Rick, and all the friends and family that have gone before, toasting to all of left behind.

Carol Moore
2 years ago

Saddened to hear of Mr. Rob’s passing. I know he will be missed. Enjoyed his company on trips. Prayers for all of you now and days to come.