Susan Hope Barmer

January 25, 1969 - January 5, 2021

01/25/1969 - 01/05/2021

AHOSKIE, NC – Susan Matthews Barmer, age 51, of Morris Road, passed away on Tuesday January 5, 2021 at her home.

Susan was born on January 25, 1969 to William Ray Matthews and Brenda Nichols Baisey in Ahoskie, NC. She graduated from Ahoskie High School. She was a registered nurse that dedicated her life to taking care of others, especially her grandchildren. She cherished her time spent with them. Susan developed a talent at doing “Do It Yourself” projects.

She was preceded in death by her father, William Ray Matthews, and grandson, Jasper Ryan.

Susan is survived by her mother, Brenda Baisey; her daughter, Lauren Hope Barmer and fiance’ Eric of Aulander; her son, William Carol Barmer of Clemmons, NC; two grandsons, Dylan Barmer, and Austin Daughtrey; sister, Billie Gail Chumbley and husband Jerry of SC; numerous nieces, nephews, cousins, and extended family whom she loved very much.

Per Susan’s wishes there will be no services and she also requested no flowers, however if anyone wishes to help in any way, they are more than welcome to donate by clicking here

Garrett-Sykes Funeral Service – Ahoskie Chapel is handling the arrangements for the Barmer family and online condolences can be directed to the family by visiting

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Regina Allen Morris
3 years ago

Brenda & Family, I’m so sorry for the loss of your precious Daughter, Sista, and Friend. May the Lord begin to heal your hearts with her sweet memories. Praying for His Strength & Comfort for y’all during this difficult time.

3 years ago

Thinking of you all. I love you guys.

Brenda Mitchell
3 years ago

Brenda I’m sorry for your loss I’m your neighbor down the road I’m just hearing about your daughter I’m praying for you and your family.

Anita Dunlow
3 years ago

Hope was in my typing class in High school, we had many laughs together. I saw hope oneday in Wal-Mart after her Grandson went to be with jesus..I Was glad to get to speak with her.My heart so heavy to know of her passing. Sending my prayers to her Mom, and family .

Amy Vick-Long
3 years ago

Brenda please accept my deepest sympathy in the loss of Susan. I enjoyed working with her years ago at the hospital. You and yours are in my prayers.

Russell Overman
3 years ago

So sorry Brenda for you and the rest of the family. You all will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Lenita Bond
3 years ago

Susan was a great person to know and work with. May her family find comfort in knowing she was a jewel rare to come by. RIP Susan.

Carolyn Gregory Upton
3 years ago

Brenda–so sorry for your loss. Keeping you in my prayers.

Cathy Horton
3 years ago

Brenda, My heart is full of sorry for you and the family. I wish there was something I could do or say to make matters easier.
Thinking of you.

Tracey Boseman
3 years ago

Rip Susan. This family has endured so much, I pray for comfort and peace for you Lauren and family.